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#1: I couldn’t find similar subject so I decide to write it as I can’t imagine life without the one Indian woman that I know and I love.
There is the main basic problem of the Indian tradisional culture - I decided to marry her as I would like to accept an Indian tradition before I’ll spend more official time with her but unfortunately I can’t do that her because I’m white. I respect her tradion and I am not going to do anything that could make her relationship with parents getting worse because for me the most important is her happiness and I know that she won’t be happy without family support.
I would like to ask about any possibilities that could make our marriage possible - I don’t need to marry her today because she is a woman that I waited whole my life and I can wait more as I know I can be happy only with her.
Thank you for all your advices that could make any possibility, even those nearly impossible to do, that could help me to be with her forever.

#2: I am a white guy who has been married to an Indian woman for 10 years. It has not been easy, but the fact that her “connection” to her family was weakend long ago has helped. Also, we live in racially diverse Southern California where we “blend in” easier. I have made it a point to encourage her friendships with other Indians, which has hopefully compensated some for the cultural difference she experiences.

From your post, it seems like you can’t live without her, and she can’t live without her family…The first question you need to ask…where will you two live? The second question…how much do you (both) want your families to be a part of your lives?

If her family is traditional and “strong”, you will face resistance. She may become an outcast and be disowned by her family…so be prepared. On the other hand, through my wife’s friendships with Indians living here, I have learned that many single Indian women think about marrying outside their culture, (but very few do). From my experience, there seems to be a belief that, in spite of our TV shows, our media and movie reputation, us American men have a reputation for treating our wives very well.

I hope this helps

#3: I am a white woman who is dating a man who claims once was in love with an indian woman. I feel it is unfair and sad this culture barrier. When he explained me his story with this indian girl I felt sad for him and for her. However, as time past by, I could see exactly what was going on… I do believe they have feelings for each other, but for what i have seen, she is VERY obsess with him not only because of love, but because he can save her from arranged weddings. she is not considering all the troubles he would have to go through if they marry. she tried to marry couple of time once she got back to india (they met in london couple of years ago). she explained everything to my boyfriend,she even send pictures of her possible husbands, and he was sad because she loved her, but happy because she would be happy marrying somebody from her culture. As soon as he told her about me, she got extremlly jelous and all of a sudden she was going to give up her family and marry him no matter what. For me,thats not love, but jelousy and selfishness. She was affraid to lose her only chance to marry a man to whom she may had some feelings, so she wanted to involve my boyfriend into this mess just because of her selfishness. I do not say all indian girls are that way, but I would like to advise white man to be careful!

#4: I’m an Indian girl married to a white guy from the US. I completely agree with your statement - “From my experience, there seems to be a belief that, in spite of our TV shows, our media and movie reputation, us American men have a reputation for treating our wives very well”.

All i had seen while being in Mumbai that how men woo women; how they want everything to go fast, and in the process forget that a woman needs to be respected. I found that most of the Indian men do not respect a woman the way she wants him to. And this is where Americans and Europeans are in a win-win situation. And it was the same when i met Matt (my husband). He cared very much for me (he still does), he understands me very well, he is a nice person - this is what attracted me to him! And when i got to know him better and better my perceptions changed a lot. I used to read a lot of articles on “how divorce rates are rising in the US” - what i did for this is tried to study it, tried to know what exactly it implies. And i found out that a lot of Indian magazines highlight the statement every now and then - only because “divorce rates are rising in the US but in India the divorce rates are not rising” - so the conclusion they arrived at was - “YES! It’s because of Arranged Marriages!” - while there is no survey, no proof, nothing to prove this statement - It’s all tom-tommed by the media!

Another reason was that - i always wanted to marry someone who is outside my culture, my race. we enjoy the cultural differences we have and rather than exploring religion in itself we explore the human origin side of it. Because religion is something that is made by humans!

I am proud and happy to be with someone who is the most amazing, the most patient person on this earth. I love everything about India, but i love everything about America too. For us it’s not India and America - it’s actually two different nations which are on the opposite sides of the globe, and exploring this opposite side of the planet is a joy in itself, it’s a very good feeling!